Well friends, it has been a year that I have been taking up my little share of space in blog-land. I am not sure if my handful of posts have been of interest to anyone, but I will continue to share my thoughts and ramblings nontheless...
Sunday, June 15, 2008
Pah! Turns One...
Well friends, it has been a year that I have been taking up my little share of space in blog-land. I am not sure if my handful of posts have been of interest to anyone, but I will continue to share my thoughts and ramblings nontheless...
Saturday, June 14, 2008
Pointing, Touching, and Personal Space...
Personal SpaceAs hearing Americans, we tend to be on guard when someone is in what we deem as our “personal space.” Everyone has experienced the uncomfortable feeling in an elevator when too many people pile in and you end up rubbing shoulders. What about at the movie theater when someone takes that seat next to you when there are plenty of open spaces further down the row? My favorite is the person on the airplane who takes control of the arm rest. We like to maintain our own personal “bubble” around us.
Contrast this to many Arab cultures who prefer and relish the closeness we American’s find disturbing. For Arab cultures, the conversational distance they find natural is the same distance American’s maintain for close or intimate conversations. In the book “Reading Between the Signs” I learned that the Arab desire for close communication comes from their desire to smell each others breath(!!) “To smell one’s friend is not only nice but desirable, for to deny him your breath is to act ashamed (Hall 196, 160).”For Deaf culture, the comfortable conversational distance and personal space varies. Signed conversations can take place at much greater distances, through glass doors, under water, etc. Signing when you are too close together is very hard on the eyes.
Pointing and TouchDo you remember your mother telling you how rude it is to point at someone? Well here is another example where the cultural differences between the hearing and deaf communities clash. Remembering that ASL is a visual language, it would seem natural – and necessary – to point at someone or something to identify it in conversation. It has taken me quite a few years to feel comfortable pointing to people.

Deaf people are also more accustomed to touch than their hearing counterparts. If I were to come up behind a hearing person and tap them on the shoulder, most likely they would be startled or look at me un-approvingly. Deafies are used to shoulder taps and touches – which are key to getting their attention.
Friday, June 13, 2008
It's all in the EYES...
Did you know that downcast eyes are considered respectful in Japanese and Indonesian cultures, where as Britons and Arabs prefer much more eye contact?
Widening of the eyes
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Intercultural Communication
Reading Between the SignsIntercultural Communication for Sign Language Interpreters
By Anna Mindess
Clearly you don’t have to be a terp to enjoy this book. I found the cultural insights quite interesting, not only between hearies and deafies, but also as it relates to other world cultures.
Some of these things I just *knew* from my ASL classes and exposure to the Deaf Community. It was great fun to read about these little cultural quirks that distinguish the hearing and deaf culture from each other.
Over the next few postings I will share some of the highlights that captured my attention.
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
McImpant
I offer it to you for amusement purposes only. No offense is intended for those who are implanted or have implanted children...
A new comedy film "McImplant" has been released on the Internet.
PC user: www.aslexpo.com/video/mcimplant.wmv
Mac user: www.aslexpo.com/video/mcimplant.mov
Monday, April 7, 2008
Beautiful
I still have goosebumps from waching the newest music interpretation from Deaf Performing Artists Network. I loved their previous adaptaion of "Waiting on the World to Change" by John Mayer. This recent rendition of Christina Aguilera's "Beautiful" is equally inspiring and wonderfully made. Go have a look...http://www.d-pan.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=58&Itemid=35
Saturday, April 5, 2008
Idiots & Jerks & Assholes, oh my!
It was really cool to see so many deafies hanging out and visiting. Clearly the deafies outnumbered the hearies to happened to be there termendously. I enjoyed watching the interactions and "close-knit" feel of the community. This is one thing I have identified over the years that "draws" me to ASL and the Deaf Community - their deep ties and lasting friendships.
Well there is always one rotten apple in the group - in this case about 3 rotten apples. At the pool table next to ours there was a group of late 20-something men out celebrating someone's divorce. (Should have been my first clue as to his ass-hole status). These guys were loud, half drunk already, and the most horrible example of the hearing community I can imagine. I was embarassed to be a hearie.They were vocalizing deragitory remarks about my deaf friends, knowing they can't hear them, and being so rude. I overheard one of them YELLING "WTF, you can't even ask these people to get out of your f**king way when you are trying to shoot pool!!!" I was simmering. Of course I can hear every word they are slurring. I can hear the banter about what they wanted to do with the cute deaf girls. I can hear their opinions on the intelligence of the deaf folks and what they think deaf are only good for. Grrrr
Well my friend K was there and saw me upset. I told her some of what they were saying and she has some awesome lip-reading skills so she was on to these jerks. Well K is not a woman to be screwed with. She went up the the primary A-hole and confronted him. She told him (vocally) that all he had to do was tap the person on the shoulder and say "excuse me" and they will move. Then she told him he did not have to be an A-hole. After that, he kept YELLING "asshole, asshole" randomly and very loudly for the next 2 hours...

While I was glad to see K stand up to him, I bet she was not happy at the unwanted attention it got her the rest of the night. These guys kept talking about her and staring at her. The primary AH actually came up to her at one point all frisky-like and she had to tell him not to "f-ing touch her"
So I get that there are drunk immature jerks everywhere. It is part of life for everyone. I was just disappointed to see how badly they treated my friends and my adopted-community. These type of idiots would have picked on anyone who was not a white male, it just happened to be us that night.
I can see now why the deaf community can be wary of hearing folks. If these fine specimines of hearing males come across as a representation of the hearing community, then I want out. I want to defect to the Deaf Community right away!
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Ripples of American Sign Language

8:30-10:00 PM- panel, "Deaf Education through the Deaf Community's Eyes"
Immediately following the CAL-ED conference's Friday night reception, there will be a "Deaf Education through the Deaf Community's Eyes" panel from 8:30 to 10:00 PM. This panel is OPEN to everybody, and does not require a CAL-ED conference registration. We encourage everybody to attend and participate in an ASL-English interpreted state-wide discussion on Deaf Education in California. The panel will be held at the San Ramon Marriott Hotel, 2600 Bishop Drive, San Ramon, CA.
Moderator: Dr. Larry Fleischer, CSUN professor & Gallaudet University Board
Wednesday, January 30, 2008
It is great to have the campus upon a hilltop, when I don't have to kill myself to get there. The view is lovely, but the climb is almost a deterrent.
Once I got to my class, my pulse jumping out of my neck visibly, I was happy to be there. This is what I have to remember.
Our teacher is Deaf. I knew that going into it. Who better to teach Deaf History than someone in the community. The part that was a challenge for me is the interpreters in the class. I am so used to ASL instruction classes that demand a NO VOICE policy. To have the terps there, telling us to VOICE for ourselves, is so much different for me. I know enough ASL to understand perhaps 80% of the lecture. Plus I only hear well out of one ear. This combination makes it an odd reality to watch the teacher and understand him in ASL, and then HEAR the English words 10 seconds later.
I will just have to adjust. One of my friends in the class, who struggles with the two language input also, is bringing earplugs. We will see how it goes...
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Spring Semester 2008
Tonight's class is Deaf History. There is one required text, which I have already read. It will be good to re-read it again with the lecture and class discussion. I am sure I will get much more out of it this time. I like to think I know a fair amount about Deaf Culture and History just from being the ASL Geek that I am. I am looking forward to expanding my knowledge, and learning from another set of hands.
I don't know anyone else planning to take this class, so hopefully I can make some new friends and expand my ASL social circle...
Friday, January 18, 2008
Cancelled!

Thursday, January 17, 2008
Motivation & Seasonal Depression
I tend to be one of those people who gets "seasonally depressed" during the winter months. The rain and gloom, coupled with early darkness, make it hard for me to be motivated to do much in the evenings. It makes the evening seem so much later than it is when I arrive home at 5:30 and it is already dark. Perhaps this is why I have not been as active in my ASL groups. I missed my December meetup because I was at my Grandfather's bedside. I missed my January meetup because it was the night before the funeral and raining. My fingers are getting rusty and my motivation to push forward with ASL classes is faltering.The thought of dragging my ass off to school again two nights a week, in the early darkness, is daunting. I know once I am there I will be fine and happy to be involved again. But this break has been nice. It has been nice to have time in the evenings to spend with family. I have re-energized a former passtime of knitting. I am finding it keeps my fingers limber and is a good activity to sit and reflect in the quiet and rhythmic movements of my bamboo needles.
While I *KNOW* I need to get off my ass and go back to class, I am struggling. Additionally, we do not even know if the class will continue since they have no instructor at this point. I am registered, but have not paid yet, since it may be cancelled. I feel like I am in limbo and I do not like it.
I have to find my motivation again. I am sure that if I do not attend this semester, I will fizzle out. Perhaps Deaf Coffee Chat tomorrow will help motivate me to get my hands moving again...
Friday, December 21, 2007
William H. Dyer, Jr

My grandfather passed away recently after a long drawn-out illness, which is partly why I have been away from my little blog. During this time, I also had my last few ASL classes and a final presentation to conjure up. I am happy to report that I got a 93% on my final story presentation and an A in the class.
Grandfather was a strong supporter of higher education. His influence was part of the reason I decided to go back to get a degree. It was very hard for me to muster the energy and enthusiasm to attend my final class. In the end, I knew Grandfather would be quite disapproving if I opted to sit home grieving rather than finishing my class.
I will continue to miss him and draw on his encouragement as I push forward with ASL104 in the Spring.
Monday, November 26, 2007
Kickbacks to Doctors for pushing CIs
A good friend of mine, who is Deaf, sent this to me today. It is from the blog Grumpy Old Deafies. The words are not mine, but I agree with the sentiment...
Cochlear's dirty marketing tricks
We've been told that a complaint was filed in USA earlier this year against Cochlear. Upon investigation, we found out that the case focused on Medicare and exaggerated claims made by providers and possible competition practices.
Background
So what's this about? Someone called Brenda March worked as the Chief Financial Officer and Vice President of Cochlear from 1998-2004. She became a whistleblower, and filed a complaint (with the US government) [PDF], via her lawyers. This case has now been referred to the US HHS Office of the Inspector General, by the US Department of Justice. Whilst this complaint focuses on specific American laws around Medicare, and the fairness of payments, it also contains useful facts about how cochlear implants are sold and marketed.
Incentives to use Cochlear's products (implant CIs)
In 1997 Cochlear established a 'Partners Program' (and subsequent schemes), which gave surgeons 'points' each time they implanted a CI. A points programme worked in the same way as rewards programmes you would get at your local supermarket. E.g. when you go shopping in Sainsburys you can get Nectar points. Get enough points and you can get some freebies or rewards. Shop elsewhere, and perhaps you can collect Air Miles, AAdvantage etc. The company buys in your loyalty, thus you feel obliged to buy from them. Its a clever marketing technique, and most of us will participate.
The okay thing about all the above marketing, is you are making decisions which affect *your* life, and *your* finances, and that is where it ends. You are fully aware this is happening, thus able to make an informed decision. Secondly, it usually has no direct implications on anyone's health.
The case of Cochlear points, works in a similar way. Surgeons, audiologists and other front line staff would get points each time their service brought a CI from Cochlear. In other words, the more Cochlear implants a surgeon implanted, the more 'points' they would get, and thus bigger and more freebies from Cochlear.
Purchasing these devices for medical staff, was not for personal use, but they would then need to sell the benefits of a CI to a deaf person or parents of deaf children to get rid of the device, so in turn they could buy more CIs from the manufacturer, and get more points or bigger freebies.
Freebies
Freebies included (to woo medics and encourage cochlear implantation):
- golf tournaments- first class airfares and also for spouses or guests
- exotic holidays- all expenses flights/trip to Australia twice a year, with significant free time & recreational activity
- payment of salaries of employees, and general operating expenses of clinics (which means more profit for physicians or practices)
- free products (which they could then sell on - device costs £16,500, so that much free money)
- direct cash payments
On a points system, these freebies would increase the more CIs implanted. Implant more, and you get a bigger personal prize.
To quote from the complaint brought by the US government and a former Vice President of Cochlear: "The express purpose of such payments are and were to encourage Physicians to direct hospitals ... to purchase Cochlear Implant Systems".
Other dubious practices
Other marketing techniques included such people involved must agree to purchase between 5-10 implants to attend an event. You would obviously then need to pass on this purchase decision to a deaf person, by marketing or selling the idea of a CI to them.
In addition, Cochlear required provide certain outcome evaluations i.e. make sure the results were favourable to Cochlear. Perhaps modify statistics or influence these, and lack impartiality.
Unethical?
See the mentality here? Lets sell the benefits of a CI to deaf people, perhaps tap into their vulnerability, so I can have some more freebies. Perhaps tell them they won't get through education (I've been told this) if they don't have a CI. Abuse and play on fear. Perhaps tell parents that alternatives such as sign language is a bad, and their child will never be normal (again I've seen it happen in clinical situations).
The problem with this, is two things:
- there is a conflict of interest between a surgeon getting a reward, and what is in the best interest of the patient. A surgeon might want some freebies, thus could go for a hardcore marketing technique (implant will really change your life etc), whether it is good for the patient or not. This brings the medical profession into disrepute.
- who is in control? When you go shopping at Sainsburys, you make an active decision to do this, and making an informed decision. The process is more transparent. How many end users are aware of the above?
Cochlear has publically stated that it wanted a 20% target growth internationally, and has beaten these targets, thus one can only assume that such aggressive marketing techniques (and what I would call unscrupulous), are happening elsewhere including the UK. For an international company, it would not single out one country in terms of incentives.
Who is protecting deaf people?
Okay, exactly what are deaf organisations doing about this? Pussyfooting around in case they offend someone, as they have done so for years? Too scared to jeopordise their positions, and put their neck on the line?
Do they receive money too or some other incentive to shut the hell up? Balanced information cannot exist just by taking CI information vs cultural information, money and power structures get in the way.
Hmm ...
A good example of money being the root of all evil?
For the record, if an adult wants an implant then they can have 100 for all I care. However, the over marketing strategies has always scared the hell out of me. It plays on fear of being in a minority and seeks to makes millions from this.
As for Cochlear shareholders, you should all be ashamed of yourselves. The sad thing is, due to how society is constructed, these people will probably think its an ethical investment.
Thursday, November 22, 2007
Thanksgiving
Thursday, November 15, 2007
Factoids
1. I have stuck my arm inside the back end of a horse – with an elbow-length glove – to help deliver her foal.
2. I am terrified of snakes, spiders, and needles
3. My tonsils were removed when I was 6
4. Red wine makes me vomit
5. So does cottage cheese and yogurt
6. I cannot play any musical instruments
7. I can talk to people who cannot hear
8. My sister and I were jilted when it came to body distribution – I have too much butt and she has too much boob. She got the better end of the deal.
9. I detest bologna
10. No matter how hard I try, I cannot stop chewing on my fingernails
11. I am too lazy to shave my legs in the winter
12. I like the aroma of vanilla, but the smell triggers a migraine for me
13. My hair started turning gray at age 23, half way through my first pregnancy
14. I am a sushi-wimp – I will eat the tempura but the really raw slimy stuff stays on the plate
15. Beer – yuck – never touch the stuff
16. When I was skinnier, I did not snore
17. I wish I had more friends
18. Spiders are best sucked up by a vacuum cleaner
19. I am allergic to bee stings
20. Snow is pretty to look at, but I do not want to be in it
21. My favorite color is red, but I cannot wear it because it clashes with my hair
22. I am a very shy person – I have no public speaking aspirations what so ever
23. My son and I are now the same height – 5’10”
24. I am fascinated by ASL, but do not know what to do with the skills I have
25. Cheese is my favorite food group
26. Growing up I could not stand Barbie Dolls – I preferred to rip their heads off and float them in the toilet
27. I preferred to play with cars - hmmm no wonder I became a lesbian
28. My eyeliner is tattooed on
29. I do not like the way I look in videos
30. Reading at night makes me sleepy
31. I am a terrible housekeeper
32. My right wrist has tendonitis
33. Vodka and whisky are lost on me – I prefer rum drinks
34. I am jealous of the Deaf community because they have very close relationships
35. Sometimes I wish I lived alone
36. I am afraid to play blackjack because counting under pressure intimidates me
37. Writing is the one area of school I enjoyed and excelled in
38. I was a pretty good artist back in the day
39. Diamonds match every outfit
40. I enjoyed watching Barney with my young son
41. I come from a very Masonic family
42. OJ was guilty – period
43. I confess to watching Survivor
44. I was married before I could legally drink
45. Hilliary is not the person I will vote for
46. I have two tattoos and one piercing (not my ears…)
47. I helped castrate a baby pig with a razor blade
48. Ancient Egypt fascinates me
49. I regret not getting a degree when I was younger
50. Christmas decorations before Thanksgiving are just wrong
Friday, November 9, 2007
ABC Story

I swear this has to be one of the hardest things to learn in ASL. The ABC Story is a staple of Deaf performance art, but I think you have to be Deaf to be successful at this naturally.
From the Color of Language:
"A treasured part of the heritage of the Deaf Community is their language, ASL. It is, as with any culture, an important part of their identity. One of the fun and special traditions enjoyed and shared by the Deaf Community is signing stories using Alphabet hand shapes. In these stories, various hand shapes do not stand for the letters themselves, but are used as signs or gestures to convey concepts. They are signed in alphabetical order, and used in amazing ways to sign or act out a story."
I will freely admit that I can't do this worth dog doo-doo. I get hung up on the handshapes or trying to correctly form the signs. The last time I had to do an ASL story was in my ASL3 class a few years ago. It was scripted for us so all we had to do was memorize the gestures. Having to come up with this from scratch is a bit more challenging.
Maybe there is some coincidence with the fast that ASL ABC Stories are gesture-based. I can't do Charades worth diddley doo either, unless I can use real signs.
My luck (and a prediction) we will have to submit an ASL story on video tape for evaluation. Perhaps I should start practicing now knowing this is a weak spot for me.
Wednesday, November 7, 2007
Attendance

I am starting to think about Spring 2008 semester and what my next ASL course should be. I have two options - continue on to ASL 104 or stay in ASL103 for the second semester. I am not on any strict timeline for completing the ASL classes, so it would not be the end of the world to have a go at 103 again. The plus side is that I would have a head start since I already know the material and the class format. I think 2nd semester ASL103 has an additional assignment (book report) which is no biggie. The down side is that I don't want to necessarily take the "easy route" and become lazy or over-confident. Perhaps it is good to push on to ASL104 to continue challeging myself.
Friday, November 2, 2007
November Meetup
Thursday, November 1, 2007
Chimpanzee who knew sign language dies...
By NICHOLAS K. GERANIOS, Associated Press Writer Wed Oct 31, 7:13 PM ETSPOKANE, Wash. - Washoe, a female chimpanzee believed to be the first non-human to acquire human language, has died of natural causes at the research institute where she was kept.
Washoe, who first learned a bit of American Sign Language in a research project in Nevada, had been living on Central Washington University's Ellensburg campus since 1980. She had a vocabulary of about 250 words.
She died Tuesday night, according to Roger and Deborah Fouts, co-founders of The Chimpanzee and Human Communications Institute on the campus. She was born in Africa about 1965.
She was taken to the veterinary hospital at Washington State University on Wednesday for a necropsy. Her memorial will be Nov. 12.
"Washoe was an emissary, bringing us a message of respect for nature," Dr. Mary Lee Jensvold, assistant director of the nonprofit institute, said Wednesday.
The Fouts went to Central Washington from Oklahoma in 1980 to create a home for Washoe and other chimps.
"The entire CWU community and the Ellensburg community are feeling the loss of our friend, Washoe, one of our daughters," said CWU President Jerilyn S. McIntyre.
Washoe also taught sign language to three younger chimps who remain at the institute, Central Washington spokeswoman Becky Watson said. They are Tatu, 31, Loulis, 29, and Dar, 31.
Washoe was the only chimpanzee at the institute born in Africa and was the matriarch of the chimpanzee family. She was named for Washoe County, Nev., where she lived with Drs. Allen and Beatrix Gardner of the University of Nevada, Reno, from 1966 to 1970.
In 1967, the Gardners established Project Washoe to teach the chimp ASL. Previous attempts to teach chimpanzees to imitate vocal languages had failed. Roger Fouts was a graduate student of the Gardners.
For Washoe to be considered "reliable" on a sign, it had to be seen by three different observers in three separate instances. Then it had to be seen 15 days in a row to be added to her sign list.
But there was controversy over whether the chimp was really using ASL. Cognitive scientist Steven Pinker has contended the notion that Washoe was the first non-human to acquire a human language was without scientific support.
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Earthquake!
ASL class last night was certainly interesting. Right in the middle of learning how to express major life decisions, the earth moved. We could hear it before we felt it. The students had a few seconds to reconcile the sound of vibrating windows before the shaking started. Once Mr. G felt the movement (he can't hear the windows or the shaking furniture) he was under the desk in a flash. For those of you who do not know the campus, we are in the Fremont hills. The building is older than I am, with one ancient elevator. My classroom is on the 4th floor, the top floor.
Mr. G dismissed class so we could get out of the building, in case of any significant after-shocks. Once we were outside, I tried to call family to report that I was fine. My cell phone kept giving me "network busy" errors. Once I got home, the news reports continued to highlight that many people did not have cell phone availability. I was able to make a call on a friend's Verizon phone, since my Sprint phone was out of commission.
Today my wife, who is from the Midwest, is freaking out about the possibility of another large quake on the Hayward fault. I think she is on her way to the emergency supply store as I type. I suppose it is good to be prepared since living in California means there will be more quakes. Nobody knows when, but they will happen.
I continue to be amazed by the power of Mother Nature.
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
Hiatus
I did not realize how long I have been away from my little blog. It has been a busy month for me. Aside from being on campus 2 nights a week, I have been attending a handful of deaf community events.9/21 Deaf Coffee Chat
9/29 Deaf Awareness Day at Great America
10/5 Feast For The Eyes at CSD
10/12 DINGO at CSD and ASL Meetup
10/19 Deaf Coffee Chat
10/20 CSD Homecoming Game
Next weekend is the annual Deaf Expo at the Pleasanton Fairgrounds. This is a huge event not only for the community, but also for vendors and communication services. On my list this year to buy is a linguistics book, an interpreting book, and any fun ASL swag I can find.
I promise to post more, even if it is just a snippet here and there...
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
Card Games
Mr. G taughts us to play Gin Rummy and Texas Hole 'Em. I have learned that deafies have a harder time keeping a straight face - likely due to their natural inclination for visual expression.
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
September ASL Meetup
Last Friday evening was another great gathering at the Dublin Starbucks. We over 10 signers attending, from ASL1 students who are just learning their basic phrases to 2nd and 3rd year Ohlone students. The more advanced students had a good time chatting about our teachers and experiences with the beginning signers.Towards the end of the evening a woman and her daughter happened into Starbucks. The little girl - age 7 - quickly noticed us all signing and motioned for her mother. It turns out that Mom (and Dad, not present) moved to Dublin fairly recently from Texas. They are both deaf, but their daughter is hearing.
Students at all levels in the circle were mesmirized watching this little darling (with the most animated face and deep dimples I have ever
seen) sign faster than any of us. She was so excited to visit with us all. We were all astonished, and humbled, to see how fluently she signs at such an early age.We explained to the new signers that the daughter was a CODA and that ASL is her first language. Her mom told us that she had started signing around the age of 7 months.
I continue to be amazed at this beautiful language and the genuine kindness of the Deaf Community members I am meeting...
Thursday, September 6, 2007
Deaf Etiquette

http://www.rit.edu/~257www/tips/primer.htm
Communicating with Deaf People: A Primer
This is designed as a basic guide for hearing people who want to communicate with deaf and hard-of-hearing individuals. It is condensed from the National Technical Institute for the Deaf's publication "Celebrate Diversity. "
Customs and Courtesies of Conversation
Deaf people appreciate the efforts of hearing people to learn and use sign. The slow communication speed is a common experience of anyone learning a new language. A deaf person will understand a hearing person's message even with mistakes, just as a hearing person will usually understand the spoken message of a person just learning English who makes some mispronunciations and grammatical errors.
Good lighting, unobstructed vision and a non-distracting, non-glare background are essential environmental conditions for successful and comfortable visual-based communication. A table in the middle of the room forces people to stand in a circle and provides them with a full view of each other. Loud noise interferes with successful and comfortable auditory-based interaction.
Facial expressions are a critical part of communication because they convey the emotions and tone of the conversation. Signing without facial expression is similar to monotone speech. Also, using voice and mouth movement helps a deaf person who has some lip-reading skills and/or residual hearing. However, a loud voice and exaggerated mouth movement interferes with understanding the voiced message.
Getting Attention
Some of the ways to get the attention of a deaf person are to tap the person on the shoulder, wave hands, flash lights or stomp feet on the floor. Deaf people may use these methods to get the attention of others. If one person can't get the attention of the intended person but does get the attention of someone near that person, the signaler may point to the person wanted and the nearby person may tap that person on the shoulder. Your shoulder may be tapped in the process of getting someone else's attention.
Interrupting a Signed Conversation
Deaf people usually do not have private conversations where they can be "overseen," so a deaf person knows it is OK to watch for a pause in a signed conversation, interrupt with a gesture, deliver the message and leave. Hearing people, however, will not watch what they believe to be a private conversation, and will stand by, waiting to be acknowledged. If you do this with deaf people, they will not understand your intention and will continue their conversation. To interrupt a signed conversation, make your desire known by eye contact and gesture without waiting for a pause, then stand by without observing until the person you want to talk to turns to you.